Classification Essay 2 (complete)

Growing up I have met so many different people, people who may stay in my life forever and even people who have went out of my life forever. The people who stay in my life I classify as my friends. I have many different types of friends, and a couple of different group’s that I would put my friends in. There is three groups that I classify friends in and that would be the “icky-okay” friends, “yah- hang out once in a blue moon ” friends and my absoulte “best “ friends. I classify my friends in these catergories depending on how close I am to them or even where and when I would see them and talk to them. When I classify these people I think about who I would call bascially my family, and not just someone who is there to see when it’s good for the other person.
“Icky-okay” friends in my eyes are the ones who I am just aquaintences with. I don’t talk to them all the time. I talk to them when it’s basically convent for me. I have all kinds of people who I call aquaintences. For example, there was these two girls who I use to be best friends with until I hit high school and everything changed. The type of people I talked to, the people I hung out with and all of that good stuff. After a while we all went our separate ways and stopped hanging out but we would talk when we saw eachother and when it was convent for us. I also people people in this group because it’s not someone who I wouldn’t sit down and spill all my secrets too, because I don’t trust them worth a dime. The people who I classify in this group can easily get on my nerves and annoy me very easily. Easier than most people can annoy me. I feel that the only reason why these “icky-okay” friends get on my nerves easily is because I know that I don’t care for them and there not my first pick to get up and go see when I wake up. These people and me just don’t click, we’re opposites and were never and will never ment to be friends, there just those “icky-okay” friends that I am barly ever in the mood to talk to.
The “yah-hangout with once in a blue moon” friends are the ones that I talk to a lot in school but I don’t really make an effort to hang out with outside of school or really talk to much out of school. I trust them with little things that I may keep away from my mother and father but I wouldn’t trust them with nothing that had to do with maybe things with my boyfriend and I or things like if I was to get introuble with the police or something. I have a lot of these types of friends. A lot of these people I use to hang out with all the time but in the end I found out that most of them are just backstabbing bitches. For instance, I use to hang out with this one girl all the time until I found out I just couldn’t trust her with my darkest secrets. All she loved was drama, and that’s not my favorite thing to be part of. I stopped hanging out with her as much as I use to and now I basically hang out with her once in a blue moon. I may hangout with her during like half time at the football game when I’m not cheering or maybe answer her text messages when she write to me. I don’t hang out with these types of people a lot because I have a hard time trusting them because of people like I just told you about up above. I still classify them as my friends because I can talk to them about some things but not things that I can talk to my best friends about.
My “best” friends are the people who I have told everything to. They know me inside and out, they can tell if I’m upset without even talking to me, they know what I am thinking by just looking at me, and they aren’t opposites of me. I only have a couple of people that I would classify as my “best” friends only because I have a trust issue with people. These people that I classify as my “best” friends are basically family to me. I know that I can go to them with anything and not have to worry about them going back and telling so and so about how I feel about something. My boyfriend is my best friend. He has been here for me through thick and thin, and he knows everything about me. He always knows when there is something wrong and always knows the right things to say. A best friend to me is someone who is always there and someone who you can call family. I trust my best friends with my life and I am always there for them when something is up. I know when they are upset or angry or anything like that. We all know each other and are bascially like peanut butter and jelly….We just go together… I wouldn’t trade my best friends for anything, they are my family.
Everyone has different categories that you would classify your friends in. Just because you put people in categories doesn't mean you hate them, or that they haven’t impacted your life in some way but it just means that you have some people that are closer to you than others. For instance, your acquaintances are people that you may have known forever and they have helped you out but you just don't trust them as much as you do your friends or your best friends. Friends are always there for you in the end but some friends can be backstabbers and it's hard to trust some of them. Best friends are like your blood, if they aren’t. Most of my best friends are family to me, if they aren’t family. I trust these people with my life. They aren’t just another person out in the crowd.